Sensory Issues in Young Children
We’re deep into Sensory Integration week, so I thought I’d describe some of the remarkable cases I’ve had that have triggered my interest in the area.
I’m a
licensed psychologist, and as such, I must fiercely protect the confidentiality
of my clients. But some of my cases are
so fascinating – and provide such a valuable learning opportunity – I will disguise the identifying information in order to share an important issue with
you. Please know that I’d never, ever sacrifice client confidentiality for any
reason other than legally or ethically mandated situations. At the same time, there are professionally
accepted ways of illustrating important case material, and protecting private
information.
Are All
the Senses Functioning Properly?
First,
there was the little two-year-old boy I’ll call “Liev”. Liev lived with his
father, 4 siblings, and several foreign nannies. His mother was off on another
continent, using drugs. She had abandoned her family. Father was struggling to deal with the
terrible strain of the effects of her behavior on all of them, especially baby
Liev. Luckily, the family was well-off, financially. Because father had
money, he was used to delegating tasks to others. But he couldn’t “phone in”
his parenting responsibilities; he needed to be present with his son.
His son worried me. At
first, we thought Liev was autistic. He constantly waved his hands in front of
his face. He didn’t make eye contact. He had constant tantrums. He was very
awkward, and seemed to move as if he didn’t see what was in front of him.
Once the
team recognized his visual impairment, his progress was amazing. I saw him six
weeks later, and literally did not recognize him. His occupational and physical
therapists helped him use his senses of touch and hearing to move around the
room. They got his attention by using touch and sound as well, instead of
expecting him to catch their eyes. He listened. He followed directions. All of
his “autistic” behaviors vanished.
Let me
also tell you about a little girl I’ll call Leilani. Leilani was referred to
me, also at age two, for being “hyper”. She didn’t want to nap, didn’t want to
sleep at night, and was constantly “on the go”. She didn’t seem to listen, and
her speech was slow to develop. Her parents were exhausted, and they had two
other young children to care for as well. There were constant power struggles,
tantrums, and now a strain on the marriage. Dad thought Mom was being “too easy”
on Leilani. Mom worried “something is just not right”, but had no support in
her exploration of that possibility.
I've
learned so much from such cases that I analyzed the sensory tendencies of our
whole family. It’s helped tremendously. One of our kids is a bit over-sensitive
to sounds. So I decided to pick him up first from school, to give him a few
quiet minutes in the car before we pick up his sister. He’s much happier to see
her now; in the past, it was constant squabbling in the back seat. But now that
he can “chill out” in the car, in peace and quiet, for just a few minutes….it
makes all the difference in the world.

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